In One More Hour

Being sincerely told these words is straight out of the place where Nessie, Bigfoot and Santa Claus live. “There are a lot of women out there, but I don’t pay them any attention because you’re the most perfect one for me. You’re the only one I want or need and I love you just as you are.” I feel this way and I just wonder if men ever do, or if they all are just unfaithful someday, during moments of weakness or a midlife crisis. I say I never want to be like Mom, but she’s the one who planted these seeds of fear in me from a young age and so we do have one thing in common - infidelity is our worst fear, makes us feel not-good-enough and it happened over and over again. Even without a reason to believe this, even in a 100% happy coupling, I still brace myself for the seemingly inevitable betrayal. She does too, with my dad. As far as I know, he hasn’t and wouldn’t. But she won’t be fleeced again. I think I need to bring this one up in therapy.

Hopping on the bandwagon of Tumblr folks saying goodbye for the weekend!

I don’t actually leave for a couple more hours, but if I say bye, I might be less tempted to waste time on here.

Happy Thanksgiving.

amorae:

lovingheartsbeat:

thoughtsofatragicmind:

fuckyeahhlove:

I’m sorry, but I just need to throw this out there. Since when did it become acceptable to lead people on? Girls: If you know you don’t want a future with him, stop pretending like he has a chance. Boys: If you know you’re only using her for her body, open your eyes and realize that she’s a human being with feelings, not a sex object. I’m tired of seeing people being used, abused and taken for granted. What is love? We sing about it. We write about it. We talk about it. We even dream about it. But do we really know what it means anymore? Let me remind you, for those of you who can’t remember. Love is patient and kind in every way. Love does not envy, or boast because it is uplifting. It is never proud because it is humble. Love is not rude, self-seeking or easily angered because it is self-sacrificing and understanding. It keeps no record of wrongs because it always forgives. Love doesn’t delight in evil, because it rejoices with the truth. It’s always protecting, always trusting, always hoping. Love always preserves. Does this refresh your memory?

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THANK YOU.

This needs to be told to everyone as part of sex ed.

I just cannot understand it.

I was away for a weekend and only two things were in my queue. There was a 40 point increase and there were no ♥’s or reblogs.

I posted a few times upon my return, got a few ♥’s and reblogs but it went down quite a bit.

This evening I posted about 3 things and no one reblogged or ♥’ed as of now, and yet it went up from 124 to 227.

What even is this?